Bodily autonomy, consent, respect - those are hard lines. 100%, no exceptions. When it comes to the lines between fashion and play-gear though, there's room for a little blurriness. Case in point: the Ouch! Puppy Play Neoprene Chest Harness. It's soft, it's comfy, and it'll keep your puppy/partner (consensually) obedient during training sessions.
Seriously great looking and ready to play hard, the plushy Harness slips over your or their chest and upper back.
In neoprene and poly, the Puppy Play Neoprene Chest Harness should be hand washed in cold water and dried flat. Fits S/M sizes - about 38-42"/96.5-107cm chests.