When it comes to masturbation, I think we’re all pretty clear on the fact that it can feel awesome, but maybe you are finding yourself wondering if it could possibly feel even more awesome? Maybe you’ve been using your hand for a long time and are ready to try out something new and exciting, maybe you saw something in a store or on a website, and now you’re curious. Whatever your reason, it’s worth considering adding a toy or two to your masturbation routine. If you are looking to stimulate your or your partner’s penis, a pocket pussy could be just the change of pace you need, so let’s talk about what a pocket pussy is, how you use one, and how using one can help you level up your solo play!
What is a Pocket Pussy?
First things first, what is a pocket pussy? Simply put, it’s a sex toy designed for penis stimulation. Sometimes called a stroker or a male masturbator, pocket pussies feature a tunnel in which to insert a penis. Typically the interior is lined with sensation-creating textures like nubs or ribs. Additionally, some come with exteriors designed to look like a realistic vagina, anus, or mouth; you can even find pocket pussies molded from the bodies of your favourite adult film stars. Finally, there are pocket pussies that come with bonus features for even more pleasure. With so many to choose from, you can easily find the best pocket pussy for you.
While pocket pussies are pretty straightforward and simple to use, there are some things you should know to optimize your pocket pussy experience. Read on to learn how to get all the pleasure you can from your pocket pussy.
Getting Ready to Use a Pocket Pussy
As with any sex toy, there are a couple of things you want to do to ensure maximum enjoyment before you and your pocket pussy get down on it.
Think about what you know you like while masturbating. Privacy is a given (unless, of course, you and a partner have agreed that it would be fun for them to watch), but what about visual stimulation? If you typically enjoy sexy videos or photos during your self-pleasure time, break them out! Bonus: if you have chosen a stroker molded from a performer, you can use the toy while watching them in action for an experience that is next-level hot!
Also, I recommend having plenty of lubricant on hand. I recommend that in general, but it is particularly good advice when it comes to strokers. I suggest something water based for a nice feel and easy clean-up, but when it comes to your lube being compatible with your toy, a water based lube is the safest bet. While many strokers are made with skin-mimicking materials or things like TPR and TPE and will be fine with a silicone or hybrid lube, some are made with silicone, and in that case, a silicone lube might damage the toy.
4 Easy Steps for Using a Pocket Pussy
Lube Up
Now’s the time to reach for that lube! Squirt some water based lube into your stroker and don’t be shy about it. Spread it around! Try to really get the whole inside coated. Remember, wet orifices feel good, right? Your stroker is no exception to that rule. Once your toy is all lubed up, it’s your turn. Apply lube to your penis, coating it entirely. You can use the action of applying the lubricant to get in some warm-up strokes, so you are good and ready to penetrate your pocket pussy.
Slide In
This is it, go time! Slide the tip of your lubed penis into your pocket pussy. Don’t rush the process. Take your time and make sure you’re comfortable. Don’t be intimidated if the orifice looks too small for your penis - most pocket pussies will stretch to accommodate penises of all sizes.
Get Moving
With a firm but gentle grip, start moving your pocket pussy up and down the shaft of your penis. Shorter strokes will deliver more concentrated stimulation to the tip, while longer strokes will feel great along the whole shaft. When you are used to using your hand to masturbate, it can be tempting to fall into the same fast up and down pace where your hand does all the work. Remember, the stroker is there to do the stimulating for you! Let it do the work.
Clean Up
To make sure you always have a great time with your pocket pussy, make sure it’s always nice and nice and clean. Proper cleaning not only minimizes the risk of any possible irritation and infection, but also helps keep your pocket pussy in tip-top shape. So, do a little research first to find out how to clean your pocket pussy.
Stroking Tips & Tricks for Pocket Pussies
There are a lot of different things you can do to enhance your pocket pussy experience. Let’s look at a couple of easy tips and tricks that can help you get the most from your experience.
Twist and Shout
For folks with penises, masturbation (as well as other sexual activities) often involves a familiar up and down motion along the shaft of the penis. A simple way to add a lot of pleasurable sensation is to incorporate a twisting motion into your routine. By twisting your wrist while you stroke (think of making a motion like you are opening and closing a jar), you will make the pocket pussy twist, and the textured inner tunnel will move around your penis in ways that can feel incredible.
Give it a Squeeze
A super-easy way to change up the sensation while using a pocket pussy is to squeeze it. Tightening your grip will make the toy fit more snugly around your penis, which can feel awesome. BONUS: if you alternate tightening and loosening your grip, the resulting pulsations can feel a lot like the muscular contractions you feel when having penetrative sex with a partner.
Warm it Up
Bodies are warm, and that warmth can make penetration feel extra good, right? So it stands to reason that a little warmth in your pocket pussy will feel good too. Some strokers come with features like warming, but even the simplest pocket pussy can be warmed up pretty easily. All you need is a bowl and some warm (not hot!) water. Fill your bowl with the warm water, add your pocket pussy, and in a couple of minutes, you’ll have a pleasurably warm experience on your hands!
Our Favourite Male Masturbators
When you’re shopping for a masturbator, stroker or pocket pussy, you’ll see that there are tons of options! Among Pink Cherry’s most popular offerings are ultra-realistic strokers molded from adult film stars like Riley Reid. These provide exciting visuals along with stimulation and can be paired with the performers' videos for a more lifelike experience.
The Super Head Honcho Masturbator is a realistic pocket pussy that has been wildly popular for YEARS and with good reason! This pocket stroker is packed with stimulating texture, made with clear TPR so you can keep an eye on the action, and has been called “As close to the real thing as you can get”
To learn even more about some of our favourite and best male masturbators and strokers for people with penises, read our linked blog!
Oral-Like Suction with a Pocket Pussy
We’ve talked a lot about using pocket pussies for a pleasurable stroking sensation, but there’s a whole array of pocket pussies that provide a suction sensation more akin to receiving a blow job. This suction sensation comes from strokers that are closed at one end. Your stroking pushes air out of the pocket pussy, creating a gentle vacuum that pulls on the penis. Additionally, some are designed for suction. One of the most popular is the Stroke It Anatomical Mouth Stroker which features realistic lips and strong, consistent suction. Users have called it “one of the best masturbators I have ever purchased.”
Pocket Pussy + Vibrations = Explosive O’s
A pocket pussy can provide a lot of pleasure all on its own, but when you add vibration to the stimulation, you boost your pleasure big time! Some vibrating pocket pussies like the Vicky Quicky Vibrating Blowjob Sucker come with their own bullet vibes as well as a convenient bullet vibe pocket, but you can achieve the sensation-- and the extra powerful orgasms!-- by simply slipping a small bullet vibrator into your masturbation sleeve of choice!
Edging with a Pocket Pussy
A pocket pussy creates the perfect opportunity for edging, i.e., the practice of bringing yourself ALMOST to orgasm and then stopping. Repeating this process several times in a row to deliver an intensely strong orgasm when you finally get there!
Build Some Endurance
In addition to edging for your own pleasure, you can also use your penis stroker to experiment with stroke styles and speed to build your endurance. As these toys are built to feel like mouths, vaginas, and anuses, practicing on your own time and seeing how long you (and your erection) can go before climaxing is a great way to build endurance for folks looking to last longer in bed.
Pocket Pussies Are Fun for Couples Too!
We’ve talked about how many ways there are for you to pleasure yourself with a pocket pussy but make no mistake; this versatile bedroom marvel can boost your partnered playtime too! If you think stroking yourself with a pocket pussy feels awesome, imagine having a partner stroking you with it! Additionally, an open-ended stroker or realistic butt sex toy can be an amazing blow job add-on. Your partner can stroke and stimulate your shaft with a toy while their mouth goes to work on your tip.
So there you have it! Alone or with a partner, a pocket pussy is a quick and easy way to take your pleasure to a whole new level!
