Now, we’ve noticed that there can be some stigma surrounding ‘needing’ lube. While it’s true that many bodies can produce their own, in a lot of cases and for any number of reasons, sometimes production just doesn’t match demand. In the case of anal sex, there’s no natural lube produced by the body at all. So whether you’re feeling a little dry, playing with toys made of certain materials, exploring butt penetration or simply wishing for a little (or a lot) of extra glide, lube is your friend!

Water based lubes are your best bet for the majority of sexy doings, it’s definitely the most versatile. Safe for use with all toy materials and condoms, perfect for skin-to-skin contact and easy to clean, a good water based lube should be in everyone’s bedside table/toy chest, what have you. The one downside to water based formulas is that they eventually dry, and can get sticky or tacky. Not what you’re going for. The good news is that slipperiness re-activates with more moisture, so whether that’s more lube or even saliva, you’ll be good to go again.

Don’t want to re-apply? A silicone lubricant won’t quit at any inopportune time and can even be used in water. Silicone lubes are safe for use with most toy materials and condoms as well, but they can’t be used with silicone toys. They’re also harder to clean from skin and fabric, but longevity and intense glide can trump that con. For the best of both worlds (water and silicone, that is), opt for a hybrid lube.

Oil based lubes are a bit of an underdog. They’re not very versatile and can’t be used with most toys- they should never be used with condoms either. Latex and oil is a no-no! Oil based lubes do shine when it comes to masturbation though- particularly if you’ve got a penis. Extra slippery and usually very thick, they’re perfect for stroke sessions and external massage.

Speaking of massage, here you’ll also find our selection of sensual massage oils and gels, sensation enhancing products and lots of luscious body care offerings.