Ever wondered what a pussy pump is? You're not the only one!
If you've never heard of this delectable device (also known as a vagina pump) or its close sex toy counterpart, the clit pump, you're in for a treat.
You've likely been exposed to the concept of a penis pump, but pussy pumping/clit pumping is more new for many folks. Yet it has been gaining popularity lately, and there's a good reason: It's a suction toy that's all kinds of awesome.
What is a pussy pump?
Picture this: It's like a magical mini-vacuum cleaner for your lady parts! But wait, don't let the name fool you – it's not about cleaning; it's about enhancing sensations and increasing pleasure. A spa day for your intimate regions, if you will.
Seriously though, a vagina pump/vaginal pump (its formal name) consists of a plastic or silicone chamber, which connects to a hand-controlled or automatic pump via a small hose. Some have hand pumps, and others rock an electric pump mechanism for ease of use.
A pussy pump sorta looks like an oxygen mask…for your vulva. You'll place it over your lady parts to create a sweet, pleasurable vacuum. And you control how much work the suction cup does -- if you want vigorous vagina pumping, you've got it! Or, if you prefer gentle, small pumps, you can do that too.
According to sexpert Tracey Coates, "[t]he pumping mechanism is usually a bulb or lever, with most users tending to opt for the bulb as it is quick and easy to use. However, this is entirely dependent on your preferences, so it's worth your while having a browse to begin with."
What does a pussy pump do?
Essentially a vulva pump boosts blood flow to the whole region, significantly increasing your sensitivity. So, if you're touching yourself, you will feel every little stroke even more. And you already know that means - your clitoris is gonna be having a field day!
Speaking of the clit, pussy pumps, and clit pumps are not the same, though they're both suction toys. Clitoral pumps (aka clit suckers) focus precisely on that small nub of delight and sometimes come in a nipple pump set, which is even more fun! (That means you get a clit pump AND two nipple pumps.) Many vulva owners also report that clit pumps mimic oral sex in an oh-so-toe-curling way.
In Coates's words, "Both vaginal and clitoral pumps enhance sensitivity, allowing users to experience more intense stimulation, subsequently making sex and masturbation feel even better. Vaginal pumps increase the blood supply to your vagina, which swells the labia, while clitoral pumps create a vacuum around the clitoris to boost blood flow also, temporarily increasing the size of the clitoris."
But wait! There's more. A pussy pump also swells the whole region up, meaning your labia and all the other bits get, well, big. Why is that cool? Glad you asked:
Why should you use a pussy pump?
There are a few fun reasons, including the stimulation and arousal that the gentle suction provides and how gorgeous your vulva looks when it's all fluffed up!
Seriously, though, it can be super hot for either you or a partner to gaze upon the process of your pussy swelling or the end product, which is like a big, beautiful, enhanced version of your natural self. Some people even have a fetish for this kind of thing. And even if you don't, it can be entertaining for you and/or a partner to see what vaginal pumping does to the region. It's sort of like if you took a rose and magnified it -- you get to see all the petals in their glory.
It's helpful to remember that pussy pumps aren't just cool to use with a partner. They're fantastic for self-pleasure practices (masturbation!) since they enhance all the sensations going on down there. And you control the different patterns and speeds of the toy, so you can see what feels good and follow that energy.
Many women also report pussy pumps enhancing their chance of an orgasm or upping the intensity of the orgasms they do have after using it. This is good to know since so many vulva owners report that it can be a challenge to come to orgasm. If you want a more intense orgasm during partnered sex, using a pussy pump beforehand could be an excellent assist.
And, yes, many partners also tend to be fans of pussy pumps, and not just for the visuals of the vaginal area. For example, according to sex writer Andrew Schroeder, "Yes, once the juices start flowing and her vagina is swollen, a woman will also be much more turned on than usual. Thus, the lucky guy sharing her bed will be more likely to get pleasure in ways he doesn't usually get to experience … Also, using a pump won't require the man to do anything new. The very same moves they make on a regular evening will seem far more sensitive and satisfying with the use of the pussy pump."
Remember, it's all about personal preference, so if you're curious and open to exploring new sensations safely and consensually, why not try it?
How to use a pussy pump
Step 1: Find a cozy and private spot to embrace the magic exploration. Make sure you feel relaxed and comfortable like you're about to embark on a delightful spa day.
Step 2: Get all lubed up! Yep, you want to apply a generous amount of water-based lube to your lovely lady parts, allowing the pump's seal to create a perfect connection without any hiccups.
Step 3: Embrace the pump and position the cylinder over your precious petals. Press it against your skin, creating a tight seal to ensure the magic happens.
Step 4: With a squeeze of the hand pump or a click of a button (depending on the type you have), watch as the pump works its charm, creating a teasing vacuum that embraces your senses.
Step 5: As the sensations grow, you might feel a delightful tingle or a sense of fullness that awakens your pleasure zone. The increased blood flow will leave you feeling more sensitive and alive. Feel free to wriggle with delight.
Step 6: Take your time, savor the sensations, and let your inner goddess revel in the experience.
Step 7: When feeling complete, release the pressure by pressing the quick-release valve or the button. The pump will gently release its grip, leaving you satisfied and invigorated.
Step 8: If you're into visuals, get a mirror to check yourself out! Have them check you out if you're doing this with a partner.
(Also, in case it wasn't clear if you're doing the partnered sex thing, you don't have the pump on during intercourse. You'll use it during foreplay and have sex afterward while you're all deliciously sensitized.)
Remember, communication with your body is vital; if anything feels uncomfortable, stop. Trust yourself, have a good time, and let the curious adventurer within you lead the way.
How to clean a pussy pump
The best pussy pump is a clean one! For real, though, you want to clean them well to maintain hygiene and prevent any potential infections or discomfort. Here's the deal:
- Disassemble that bad boy. Take out any removable parts, like the cylinder or tubing, and any attachments or seals.
- Rinse everything with warm water to wash away bodily fluids or lubricants.
- Use mild soap or toy cleaner and a soft cloth or sponge and gently clean the inside and outside of the cylinder and any other parts that came into contact with the body. Avoid harsh chemicals or strong detergents, as they can cause skin irritation.
- Rinse thoroughly: Get off all the soap to prevent any residue from contacting sensitive skin during the next use.
- Disinfect: If you want to, you can disinfect by soaking the cylinder and other non-electric parts in a solution of warm water and a mild antibacterial soap or toy cleaner. Or you can use a specialized toy disinfectant spray or wipes.
- Air dry: After cleaning and disinfecting, ensure everything dries entirely before reassembling or storing the pump.
- Store properly: Put your clean and disassembled pump in a clean, dry, and discreet place, away from direct sunlight and extreme temperatures.
And, of course, refer to the specific cleaning and care instructions provided by the manufacturer of your particular pussy pump model, as some have specific guidelines to ensure safe and effective cleaning.
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As with all sex toys, in the end, it's all about exploration and adding a sprinkle of adventure to your intimate life. When you embrace the journey of self-discovery, you discover new sensations and unleash the potential of your pleasure.
Whether you're exploring a Doc Johnson pussy pump, getting down with a prostate massager, or fooling around with a sex doll together, the sky's the limit. Your sexual pleasure makes life fun -- and we could all use more of that!
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Sources
Andrew Schroeder, Lovegasm. "Pussy Pumps: Why Do Men Love Them?" Published January 20th, 2021. Accessed July 27th, 2023. https://lovegasm.co/blogs/for-her/pussy-pumps-why-do-men-love-them
Megan Wallace & Lois Shearing, Cosmopolitan. "Everything you need to know about pussy pumps." Published June 8th, 2023. Accessed July 26th, 2023. https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/love-sex/sex/a39000953/pussy-pumps/
Staff writer, Dame. "A practical guide to choosing a clit or pussy pump." Published Oct 28th, 2018. Accessed July 27th, 2023. https://dame.com/blogs/sexual-wellness/what-is-a-pussy-pum
