Whether you’re giving some toe-curling head to your man, or you’re the lucky partner on the receiving end, it’s no secret that blowjobs (and oral in general), are one of the best things on the planet. Really, blowjobs are a lot like ice cream; completely awesome, but can be made even better with sprinkles or chocolate syrup. In this article, we’re dishing out the details on how to enhance a blowjob with the right combo of toys & oral sex products for an experience he won’t soon forget!
You can call it playing the skin flute, licking the love pump, head, smoking cock, or dick diving. No matter which euphemism is your personal favourite, we’re pretty sure that you know just how hot a great blowjob can be. When done right, a blowjob will bring a guy to a mind-blowing orgasm that he’ll love!
Of course, everyone has their own special blend of moves and techniques that they’ve tested out to try and find the perfect combo of lip, tongue, and hand actions. However, there are always ways to enhance the experience and make things even better. Sound too good to be true? Well, to borrow a tagline from a world-famous cartoon rodent-superhero, Mighty Mouse, “Here we come to save the day!”
Making a great blowjob even better may seem like a pretty tall order, but there are lots of things that you can add to your tried-and-true blowjob method(s) to change things up. For example, sometimes it can be as simple as switching up your hand and mouth motions, while other times the secret sauce could be a delicious flavoured sex lube or tingly blowjob candy. And, let’s not forget how incredible vibrations can feel in combination with some serious tongue action!
Before we check out those awesome oral sex products, let’s first take a look at some helpful tips and tricks you can use in finding the art of the blowjob, and to tweak your techniques and throw a few curve-balls at your man next time you go downtown.
5 Essential Blowjob Techniques
1 - Get Wet
If you only take one tip from this article, make it this one: A wet BJ is a great BJ. This goes for pretty much any sexy activity, but things feel WAY better if they’re slippery. Dry and sticky? No thanks!
For blowjobs, this means getting some serious saliva going. Let that spit flow! This acts as a natural lubricant, which comes in very handy, if you know what we mean. Of course, you can definitely supplement saliva with a great lube, which we’ll get to later. In a nutshell, though, the wettest blowjobs are usually also the best blowjobs.
2 – Be Handy
Like we alluded to when we talked about lubrication, using your hands is really, REALLY important. Sure, there are some methods for blowjobs that are hands-free, and they can be fun, but most of the time you’re going to want to keep those hands in on the action.
Use one to caress and gently fondle his balls, while the other strokes up and down on the shaft while your mouth and tongue work their magic. Or, switch it up and use the double-handed twisting-stroke, which is guaranteed to get rave reviews at the end of the show.
It bears repeating though, keeping things slippery is essential, especially for any kind of handjob/blowjob combination. Like we said above, saliva works great, but consider also picking up some tasty flavoured lubes that make things even more delicious.
3 – Pressure Matters
Having the right pressure on his cock and balls is definitely important, as too much can be uncomfortable and even painful (especially on the balls). Start out with gentle pressure, and gradually getting more firm with your hand and mouth on his cock and balls is the best approach, but only up to a point. We recommend occasionally asking him whether it’s enough pressure, or too much, just to be sure, until you find the sweet spot. After all, the last thing he’ll want during a great blowjob is a squeeze to the balls that’s way too much. That’ll kill the mood, and fast!
4 – Turn on the Suction
No, we’re not saying be a human Hoover, but actual suction makes a big difference in a blowjob. You need to do a combination of motions & actions to deliver the best blowjob, including stroking with your hands, licking and twirling with your tongue, and some gentle suction to go along with them. It’s the combination of all these different sensations that take a top-quality blowjob over the top!
5 – Make it a Feast for the Eyes, Too
Even though they revolve around a mouthful of cock, blowjobs should also be a visual feast, too. This means paying attention to what he sees while you do your thing. Make eye contact with him from time to time. Trust us, the sight of your face with his cock in your mouth is one he definitely wants to see, so let your eyes do the talking and let him know what’s on your mind without saying a word.
Sexy lingerie can have a big impact on the blowjob experience, too. Not only are you going to look super-hot to him, but you shouldn’t underestimate how much a super-sexy outfit can affect your attitude. When you look hot, you feel hot, and it’ll show on your face and in your actions, so don’t hesitate to go all-out with the sexiest panties & lingerie that you’ve got.
Sexy Supplies for Brilliant Blowjobs
Now that you’ve got some new tricks to try in your next oral adventure, it’s time to talk about products and sex toys that can really ramp up the intensity and add a new dimension to blowjobs. We’ve gathered up an awesome collection of products that are definitely going to up your oral game and score some extra points with your man during your next blowjob. Read on, and discover how creative your blowjobs can get!
Flavoured Lubes
Sweeten things up with a tasty sex lube that will delight the senses with scents and flavours that will make your mouth water and keep everything sliding perfectly. Whatever your preferred taste might be, you’ll find a flavoured lube that will suit it. There are plenty of fruity flavours to choose from, such as strawberry, peach, and watermelon, just to name a few.
If you’re more interested in a blowjob that features the taste of your favourite dessert, you can find such creative flavours as Salted Caramel, Vanilla Cream, and evenCherry! Candy lovers can also find lubes that taste exactly like cotton candy and candy apples. There really is something for everyone in the world of flavoured sex lubes!
Oral Sex Candies & Blowjob Treats
Lubes aren’t the only things that can add some exciting flavours to your blowjobs. There are also special oral sex candies out there that enhance the experience by adding exciting new sensations in to the mix. Choose from playful products like this edible candy cock ring from the Blowjob Surprise Goody Bag, or BJ Blast candy that crackles just like the classic pop rock candy, and definitely makes a blowjob feel different!
Vibrators
To go along with the awesome sensations that come from your hands, mouth, and tongue during a blowjob, try experimenting with a small bullet vibe at the same time. Use the vibe against his shaft as your mouth moves up and down on his head. Then, change things up by running your lips and tongue up and down the shaft while buzzing the head with the vibe. Trust us, it’ll feel great!
Butt Plugs & Prostate Vibes
Speaking of extra sensation, butt plugs and prostate vibrators can also be a great way to add a little (or a lot) more toe-curling stimulation to a blowjob. The prostate is one of the most intense erogenous zones for men, so it just makes sense that stimulating it while you’re rocking his cock with your mouth will definitely make him cheer! You can even get anal vibes that come with a remote control, so he can be in control of the vibe action while you’re in control of his penis. Sounds good to us!
No Two Blowjobs are Ever the Same
We’re just going to go ahead and say it; blowjobs are the best! They’re fun, they feel amazing, and they’re a great way to get creative with your sexy time together. We’re big believers in keeping things exciting and fresh, and with all these new ways to be a better blowjobber, you’ll have all kinds of new tricks to spring on your man that he’s sure to love.
We hope that you’ve found these oral sex tips helpful, and that you’re looking forward to giving your next blowjob as much as your man is looking forward to getting one!
So grab some sex toys & lubes, and let’s get the party started!
