Physical intimacy and foreplay are both crucial components of any relationship, whether you've been together 10 months or 10 years. They're both key to keeping the fire burning and ensuring a satisfying, pleasurable time for all involved. We might think we know how to foreplay, but really we're stuck in a rut, relying on the same old methods to get our partner going. Now don't get us wrong, we're not expecting any Christian Grey-level stuff, unless that's what you're into, of course. But some small, subtle things can make a massive difference in terms of how to make someone horny. Luckily, we've got some tips for you.
What Is Foreplay?
Foreplay is what usually precedes sexual intercourse. That being said, intercourse doesn't have to be dessert, or even on the menu. While most people think foreplay is strictly "fooling around," it actually can entail many different things, including kissing, touching, using sensual love sex toys and more. It's anything that adds to the erotic excitement while also preparing the body for some mind-blowing intercourse. Keep reading to learn how to turn someone on through these 10 seductive, practically foolproof methods.
1. Send Spicy Text Messages
Start the foreplay before you even get home. Send sensual or even flat-out sexually explicit text messages to your partner. Tell them exactly what you want to do with them (and to them) when you get home. Tease your lover, hinting at what you're wearing and how horny you're getting just thinking about them. They'll be dying to rip your clothes off as soon as you walk in the door.
2. Take a Sensual Shower or Bath
Save some water and take a hot shower or erotic bath together. Getting soapy, slippery and wet, gliding your fingers over each other's naked bodies — it's the perfect recipe to make someone horny. Have your partner watch as you slowly clean every inch of your body, letting the water run down your skin. Or, hand the loofa to your lover and let them softly and sensually clean you. We can't tell you how erotic it is to be in the hands of your partner, letting them be in control of getting you nice and wet...
3. Turn On A Sexy Playlist
Do you and your partner have that one song or sex playlist that gets you both all hot and bothered? Turn it on and turn it up. Whether you love to ride and grind to down and dirty R&B hits or get sexual satisfaction from breathy vocals and slinky rhythms, there are sexy songs for every taste and tryst. Want to crank it up a notch? We-Vibe has designed sex toys that allow you to create specialized vibrating playlists that can pulsate to the beat of your favourite songs — perfect for teasing your partner and getting them ready to do the deed.
4. Touch Them Seductively Out In Public
There's something taboo and, thus, inherently arousing about being touched seductively in a nonsexual setting. We're not saying to go to town while out in public or anything, but a soft touch in some core erogenous zones can be incredibly pleasurable. Plus, teasing your partner when they can't really do anything sexual is extremely hot. Lightly trace your fingertips against your partner's inner wrists, nape of the neck, lower back or thigh while out in public or in the car. Even playing footsies with your partner while you're waiting for food at a restaurant can drive them crazy (in the best way possible). Find ways to touch each other, even when you don't have to.
5. Touch Them Seductively At Home
The touching doesn't have to stop when you're home; in fact, it shouldn't! Wrap your arms around your partner as they're making dinner, squeeze their butt when they get up from the couch, run your hands over their body when they step out of the shower. These small signs of affection and attraction are incredibly sexy and a great way to make someone horny while not-so-subtly suggesting it's time to get it on.
6. Be Confident And Embrace Your Inner Sexiness
There is honestly nothing sexier than complete confidence in yourself, and that translates to foreplay. So, take some time and do what you need to do to feel like the hottest and sexiest version of yourself. Whether that means getting a spray tan, slipping into some sexy lingerie or getting hot and sweaty during an intense workout, whatever you need to do, do it. The more self-assured you feel, the sexier you'll feel, and that is insanely attractive. Your partner won't be able to keep their hands off you.
7. Kiss A Lot
Never underestimate the power of making out. Sometimes it can take just a few minutes of intense kissing to get in the mood and make someone horny. Take it a step further and kiss your partner all over their body, starting at the nape of the neck and working your way down. Kiss until you're both gasping for breath. It's romantic, it's sensual, it's sexual and it's a surefire way to turn your partner on.
8. Watch Porn Together
In terms of how to make someone horny, sometimes good ole porn can do the trick. But be considerate of what your partner likes. Not everyone prefers the hardcore stuff. Look for something you'll both enjoy with decent storylines and good-looking actors. Massage your partner and kiss them while you watch, maybe even start to give them a handjob or gently touch their breasts. Then, when the action really gets going, you can follow suit.
9. Focus On Foreplay
Whenever we're asked how to make someone horny or how to foreplay the right way, our biggest suggestion is to take things slow and treat foreplay just like you would the main event (sex). There's no need to rush. Slow it down and enjoy yourselves. Foreplay is all about the art of pleasuring each other. Instead of focusing on how quickly you can get to sex, give yourself the goal of making your lover cum from your foreplay techniques alone. You can even try using some sensual sex toys to create the ultimate foreplay fantasy.
10. Take Control
Knowing how to foreplay is key, but you also need to know when you're both ready to take it to the next step. It's extremely sexy when a man takes control (in a consensual way, of course) and ravishes his lover in ways they didn't even know they needed. And ladies, nothing turns a partner on more than when you take charge and initiate sex. Do it when they least expect it and dictate what you want and when. Whether this entails talking dirty, slipping into costume lingerie or engaging in a little BDSM play, it's all hot to your lover — trust us.
Take Foreplay to the Next Level with the Help of PinkCherry
The fun of foreplay is everyone likes different things, so you can explore new and exciting ways to get off. There isn't one right way to make someone horny — we're each our own beautiful, sexy butterfly with different needs and wants! And at PinkCherry, we have an unparalleled selection of sex toys to tease, tantalize and excite you and your partner. Shop vibrators, dildos, anal sex toys and more to get your partner wet and ready to play. Tempting and teasing your partner has never been more fun!
